The Art of Living Between Worlds

                                                      

 The Art of Living

 Between Worlds

 

       

Shalom from Yoel and Orly, founders

of Ulpan-Or, the International Center
for Hebrew and Israeli Culture Studies.

 

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But Jewish learning has never been satisfied with arithmetic alone.

Because when the Torah lists the names—one by one—we count sixty-nine.

 

So where is the seventieth?

 

The Talmud offers a quiet but explosive answer:

 

 

 

 

• Not in Egypt.
• Not in the Land of Israel.
• But between.

Egypt as a Psychological Space

 

Egypt represents a mindset:

• Power without morality
• Stability without freedom
• Culture without soul

 

And into that space, three kinds of Jews emerge.

1. Those born in the Land of Israel

They carried purity, memory, and distance. Egypt felt foreign, threatening, almost unreal. They survived by withdrawal.
 

2. Those born fully in Egypt

They inherited stories of the “old country,” but Egypt was their lived reality. They understood its language, symbols, fears—and
temptations.
 

3. And one soul born between the walls

Neither nostalgic nor assimilated.

This soul was Yocheved.

 

Between Walls Is Not a Compromise — It Is a Skill

 

Yocheved embodied a rare human capacity:

To belong without dissolving To adapt without surrendering To engage darkness without becoming dark

 

Modern Psychology: Bicultural Competence

 

It refers to the ability to:

• Navigate more than one value system
• Read multiple cultural “codes”
• Shift behavior and language without identity collapse
• Remain internally coherent while externally flexible

 

Research shows that people with high bicultural competence tend to have:

 

Greater emotional resilience

Higher empathy and perspective-taking

Stronger moral agency under pressure

A deeper sense of self, not a weaker one

 

 

Yocheved is an ancient model of this modern insight.

 

And yet she refused to let Egypt define her inner world.

 

The Midwife of Redemption

Yocheved becomes one of the Hebrew midwives—Shifra and Puah—together with her daughter Miriam.

 

• When Pharaoh turns fear into policy, they choose conscience.
• When the system demands death, they insist on life.

From that defiance is born a child hidden in a basket, floating on the Nile, raised in Pharaoh’s palace—Moses.

 

The redeemer of Israel is born from a woman who knows how to live inside the system without bowing to it.

 

A Chassidic Teaching

Chassidic masters teach that exile cannot be repaired from the outside alone.

Those who flee it cannot elevate it. Those who submit to it cannot transcend it.

 

 

 

The Hebrew word בֵּין (BEIN)—between—is profoundly active.

 

From it come expressions still alive today:

 

בֵּין הַפַּטִּישׁ לַסַּדָּן – [BEIN HAPATISH LA’SADAN] Lit. between the hammer and the anvil
between a rock and a hard place

 

 

נִפַּל בֵּין הַכִּסְאוֹת – [NAFAL BEIN HAKIS’OT] Lit. fell between the chairs

fell through the cracks

 

בֵּין הַשּׁוּרוֹת – [BEIN HA’SHUROT] Lit. between the lines –

has a hidden meaning 

 

Hebrew preserves a deep truth:

 

Our Moment

Today, many Jews—in Israel and across the world—live between walls:

• Between tradition and modernity
• Between security and uncertainty
• Between memory and responsibility
• Between global culture and Jewish identity

Yocheved speaks directly to our time.

 

 

Sometimes the most decisive soul is not the loudest.

 

 

Shabbat Shalom,

 

Yoel & Orly